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The manner in which we communicate can be just as crucial as the content of our message. Proverbs 25:11 illustrates this beautifully, comparing fitly spoken words to 'apples of gold in settings of silver' - words that are perfectly timed, appropriately delivered, and beautifully presented. Throughout history, communicators like C.S. Lewis and Ronald Reagan demonstrated this skill, but Jesus remains the ultimate example of speaking with perfect wisdom and timing. When confronted with trick questions or difficult situations, Jesus consistently responded in ways that maintained truth while diffusing conflict. Whether addressing the question of taxes to Caesar, confronting the accusers of a woman caught in adultery, or explaining His association with sinners through parables, Jesus' responses were masterful examples of fitly spoken words. To improve our own communication, we should practice thinking, praying, and waiting before speaking. When we do speak, our words should be wise, truthful, and gracious. Stories can be particularly effective for communicating difficult truths, creating connection and understanding where direct confrontation might fail. By relying on the Holy Spirit's guidance and being mindful of both what we say and how we say it, we can use our words to build bridges rather than barriers in our relationships.
